Reality Check Assessment
Your Marriage,
Honestly
Measured.
The Rhythms of Marriage Reality Check Assessment gives you and your coach a clear, honest picture of where your marriage is thriving — and where it needs attention.
12
Rhythms
8
Sections
"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor."
Ecclesiastes 4:9
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1
Coach Creates Session
Your coach generates unique, private assessment links for each spouse through the admin panel.
2
Each Spouse Completes
Husband and wife each complete the assessment independently on their own device. Takes 20–25 minutes.
3
Reports Are Generated
Once both are done, detailed coach and couple reports are instantly available with scores, profiles, and flags.
4
Coaching Begins
Your coach uses the report to guide focused, meaningful sessions across the coaching arc.
01
Use Your Link
Click Your Assessment Link
Your coach sent you a personalized link. Simply click it and your assessment will open automatically — no code needed.
Link goes directly to your assessment
Each spouse has a separate, unique link
Your answers are completely private
Enter a Code
Begin With Your Access Code
If your coach gave you an access code instead of a link, enter it below to begin your assessment right here on this page.
Takes about 20–25 minutes to complete
Be honest — not ideal, but actual
You can pause and return to your link
Enter Your Code
Ready to
Begin?
Begin?
Paste or type the access code your coach sent you. Each spouse uses their own unique code — do not share codes with each other.
Your Access Code
Your code is case-insensitive. It looks something like SMITHCOUPLE-H-XYZ123. If you don't have a code, contact your coach.
02
Create New Session
Generate a new assessment session for a couple. Creates unique links for husband, wife, and your coach access code.
Create Session
Coach Report
View the full detailed coach report — risk & resilience summary, personality profiles, compatibility flags, and session roadmap.
Open Report
Couple Report
Open the beautiful printable couple report to share with the couple. Designed for print or PDF delivery after your first session.
Open Report
Coach Portal
Access the individual coach dashboard — each certified coach logs in to manage their own assigned couples, sessions, and reports.
Open Portal
Retrieve Links
Look up existing session links using your coach code. Quickly copy and resend links to a couple who needs them again.
Get Links
Progress Report
Compare before-and-after scores for couples who have completed a retake assessment after coaching. Available when a retake exists.
Open Report
Coach Access Required
Enter Coach Password
Session creation is restricted to certified Rhythms of Marriage coaches. Enter your coach password to continue.
Coach Tools
Create New Session
Coach Access Required
Enter Coach Password
The Coach Report contains confidential assessment data. Enter your coach password to continue.
Coach Tools
Open Coach Report
Coach Tools
Open Couple Report
This opens the printable couple report in a new tab. Share this with the couple after your first session or print it as a PDF.
Coach Tools
Retrieve Session Links
Coach Tools
Open Progress Report
Enter both codes to compare before and after. Both assessments must be fully completed.
Coach Access Required
Enter Coach Password
The Admin Panel is restricted to certified Rhythms of Marriage coaches. Enter your coach password to continue.